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                  原來這就是破窗定律

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                  原來這就是破窗定律

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                    相信,在生活中,你肯定也有這樣的經歷

                    晚上睡覺前,你拿起手機自己說,就幾分鐘,結果成了幾小時。

                    酒席上,朋友給你勸酒,你實在拒絕不了,說只喝一杯。結果就有了第二杯、第三杯,最后幾乎大醉而歸。

                    你和朋友逛街,本打算什么也不買。結果,店員給你推薦了一支眉筆,最后你幾乎買了一整套化妝回家

                    很多事情,就像這樣,一旦有了開始的第一個突破口,結果就會一發不可收拾。

                    曾聽過一個故事

                    講的是一個小孩小時候第一次偷東西,偷了一根針,他母親覺得只是一根針而已,就沒有責怪他。

                    于是就有了他以后的一次又一次的偷東西。

                    后來,他長大了偷金子,被關進大牢,判了死刑。

                    他在刑場上,對著他的母親大哭:“如果我第一次偷針的時候,你就嚴厲地懲罰我,我今天就不會死去。”

                    俗話說千里之堤毀于蟻穴,如果最初的那個小誘惑,小妥協,小毛病沒有引起我們的重視,最后它將會變成擊垮我們的罪魁禍首。

                    就像米蘭·昆德拉所說的:“第一次的背叛,不可挽回的引起更多的背叛,如同連鎖反應一次次地使我們離最初的背叛越來越遠。 ”

                    人,一旦放任自己有第一次,就會有以后的無數次。

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                    生活中,我們很多人都在講堅持,但是真正做到堅持的人卻很少。

                    這是為什么?

                    作家村上春樹從1982年的秋天開始跑步,一直到今天,堅持了幾十年,他是怎么做到的?

                    曾堅持過跑步的人,都會遇到過這種狀況:今天太忙,不跑了;今天太明天再跑,今天情不好,不想跑……

                    當有了第一次找借口,讓自己放棄堅持,到最后,往往就會放棄了堅持本身。

                    但是村上春樹不一樣,他說:“因為不想跑步,所以要去跑步。”

                    因為從未有過一次“偷懶”,所以他堅持到如今。

                    堅持做一件事情,堅持到底,確實很難。

                    因為我們總有不想做的時候,總會給自己找理由,讓自己處于輕松舒服狀態

                    但是,即使堅持一件事很難,也不要讓自己有放棄的第一次想法;因為放棄了一次,第二次就更容易了。

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                    美國斯坦福大學心理學家菲利普·辛巴杜于1969年進行了一項實驗。

                    他找來兩輛一模一樣的汽車,把其中的一輛停在加州帕洛阿爾托的社區,而另一輛停在相對雜亂的紐約布朗克斯區。

                    停在布朗克斯的那輛,他把車牌摘掉,把頂棚打開,結果當天就被偷走了。

                    而放在帕洛阿爾托的那一輛,一個星期也無人理睬。

                    后來,辛巴杜用錘子把那輛車的玻璃敲了個大洞。

                    結果呢,僅僅過了幾個小時,它就不見了。

                    以這項實驗為基礎,政治學家威爾遜和犯罪學家凱琳提出了一個“破窗效應”理論:

                    一間房子如果窗戶破了,沒有人去修補,隔不久,其他的窗戶也會莫名其妙地被人打破;

                    一面墻上如果出現一些涂鴉沒有清洗掉,很快墻上就布滿了亂七八糟、不堪入目的東西。

                    在一個很干凈的地方,人們會很不好意思扔垃圾;但是一旦地上有垃圾出現,人們就會毫不猶豫地隨地亂扔垃圾,絲毫不覺得羞愧。

                    這就是“破窗理論”的表現。

                    好的東西人們會盡量保護它,而好的東西一旦有了劣痕,人們就會自覺地任其變得更壞。

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                    讓一件原本好的東西變壞,往往是由一個看起來很小的行為產生的。

                    就像第一次遲到,沒有被懲罰,然后養成了遲到的習慣;第一次降低對自己的要求,最后變得對自己沒要求……

                    所以,不要給自己那些放任自己的第一次機會,不要打破自己的第一扇窗戶。

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